For The Married


WORLDWIDE MARRIAGE ENCOUNTER weekends offer a couple an opportunity to deepen one's love relationship with each other and God as well as revitalizing one's marriage using a technique of loving communication.  The weekend dates for 2016-17 are:

  • Nov. 17-19-2017     Notre Dame Retreat House   Canandaigua, NY  14424  

For more information, call 1-877- 697-9963 or visit

 RETROUVAILLE (Rediscovery) is a peer ministry program which consists of a weekend and several follow up sessions focusing on issues related to a couple’s emotional life such as disillusionment, anxiety, lack of communication. Other areas touched on include forgiveness, healing, conflict, trust, intimacy and sacrament. This is a Catholic program that welcomes couples of all faith expressions as well. Over 75% of participating couples are not only still together but definitely have improved their once strained marital relationship. Go to for an overview of this program and to register if desired.  For more information and registration contact 1 800 470-2230.  For a brochure call your Office of Family Life Ministries at 716 847-2210 or e-mail 

The dates for the Retrouvaille Weekends in Buffalo are:    

  • Oct. 20, 2017

Read Bishop Malone's pastoral letter:  Marriage: yesterday ... today ... always

Retrouvaille Brochure

ENRICHMENT: Programs, workshops or presentations focusing on various topics to support, promote, reinforce and enhance the lived reality of one’s sacrament are offered by contacting your Office of Family Life Ministries at 716 847-2210 or e-mail us at  Click here to download the Marriage Enrichment brochure.

HEART TO HEART:  Heart to Heart PAIRS workshops help married couples learn the tools to communicate skillfully, to problem solve constructively, and to build lasting love in their relationship with their spouse.  The rippling effect benefits their children and family as well.  PAIRS teach skills that not only strengthens their marriage but prevents separation or divorce.  Instructors are certified.  THIS PROGRAM IS FOR COUPLES WHO ARE MARRIED, NOT TO THOSE WHO ARE ENGAGED.  For information, contact Dan and Irma at, or call 716 652-5884 or e-mail

Teams of Our Lady is a program that seeks to promote authentic married love that not only leads to God but also to a more intimate and enriching relationship with one's spouse.  A Team is a group of five to seven couples affiliated with a Catholic priest/chaplain who have freely decided to join together to find support in their efforts to lead Gospel lives.  For more information or a brochure, contact Dave & Cheryl Clifford at 716 677-0920 or email at


Marriage Counseling Center:  Services include couple counseling which can assist couples to end destructive emotional cycles and work toward rebuilding trust.  The Center can help one with problems that can trouble any relationship such as communication, conflict, sexuality, addictions, blended family, affairs, separation and more.  For a brochure, contact Family Life at 716 847-2210.  To schedule an appointment, contact the Marriage Counseling Center directly at 716 839-4406.  They believe your counselor should "be the last one in the room to give up on your marriage."

 Pastoral Solutions Institute:  An organization dedicated to providing resources religiously committed Catholics need to live more faithful and abundant marriage, family and personal lives.  The Institute created by Gregory Popcak, MSW, Ph.D nationally recognized Catholic psychotherapist, offers resources and professional services to help overcome difficulties like marital conflict, childrearing problems, depression, anxiety, stress and the difficulties associated with major life transitions.

For an initial, free, informational interview, call 740 266-6461.  For articles and much more, go to or e-mail

THE NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF INTERCHURCH AND INTERFAITH FAMILIES: Is dedicated to serving the needs of both Interchurch and Interfaith families. While aware of some obvious differences between Interchurch couples (people from different Christian traditions) and Interfaith couples (people from different faith traditions) their focus is on what we all have in common and to assist couples and families in both groups through many articles, links and their newsletter “Together.” For more information go to


FOR YOUR MARRIAGE: The U. S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) provides information and resources about a healthy marriage in general and Catholic marriage in particular. Offerings include a Daily Marriage Tip, regularly changing features like the monthly Marriage Quiz, Book of the Month review and Marriage in the News. They continue to add to the content on a regular basis. Go to this user friendly website: Click on Caring For Your Marriage, then Resources.

"Together with Jesus COUPLE PRAYER SERIES."  The Couple Prayer Series Home Edition provides six sessions of Videos on DVD plus supportive print materials.  Couples grow into genuinely closer love relationships with God and one another by gradually sharing a wide variety of supportive prayer experiences including thanking God together, asking God's help together, forgiving together, blessing each other and more.  For more information, contact Bob and Kathy Ojies Couple Prayer Series e-mail  Mail P.O. Box 1270, Royal Oak, MI 48068.  Phone 248 546-7253 or

WORLD MARRIAGE DAY is observed in February, generally on the second Sunday of the month.  Liturgical suggestions and ideas for celebrating the gifts of Christian marriage and family are provided annually to parishes or individuals. Go to web site

WEDDING ANNIVERSARY MASS for couples celebrating their 50th, 60th and 70 plus anniversaries of marriage a special Mass will be celebrated by Bishop Richard Malone on Sunday, October 18, 2015 at 3PM at St. Joseph ’s Cathedral. A reception will follow at the Adam's Mark Hotel. Family and friends are welcome. For more information contact your parish or your Office of Family Life Ministries at   716 847-2210 or e-mail us at

As part of our Annual Diocesan Recognition, all couples whether they can or cannot attend the Anniversary Mass will receive an Anniversary Scroll signed by Bishop Malone.  Please contact your local parish for information.


FAMILY MATTERS: Family Matters is a collection of resources and inspiration on marriage, parenting and spirituality insights developed by Susan Vogt, nationally recognized Catholic author and speaker. The marriage section includes articles, recommended books, marriage enrichment programs, home activities, links to related websites and over 200 archived Marriage Moments. Go to Click on Marriage, then Resources.

Marriage Spirituality Tune Up Packet Available: Jesus’ first miracle takes place at the Wedding Feast of Cana. John 2:1-12. Jesus changes the water into wine – the best wine! He changes the ordinary into the extraordinary. Every marriage whether months or 75 plus years has tune up needs. For your free, practical, useful packet with many suggestions and resources to enrich your marriage, contact your Office of Family Life Ministries at 716 847-2210 or e-mail at

Marriage Moments: Short, concise, practical, helpful ideas to enhance your relationship are provided weekly. Reference your Chancery newsletter.